Coaching an Embedded Practice in real work.
Run a ten-second filter before you speak. Lead with the point, prove it once, name the ask.
Ten seconds of silent prep before you speak. That's the whole practice. What it does to how the room receives you is anything but small.
Are they catching it in time?
They're about to be handed the floor. Note whether you saw the pause happen live, or only heard the outcome after.
Is the new or default action running?
Did they run the filter in that pause, or launch into the full story? Can't tell, ask what they were thinking. Can tell, reinforce it.
Is this a pattern, or one good moment?
The pause and the tight answer show up meeting after meeting, not just in the one you happened to be watching.
Is it showing up unprompted?
No prompting, no visible pause needed. Others call them the clear one in the room, and they stop naming the pause as deliberate.
Consistent evidence the pause runs on its own — before it's ever asked for.